Shaan, higher identified for his evergreen romantic numbers, is all set to host upcoming actuality present, Mika Di Vohti. The Swayamvar may have him guiding his shut good friend find a life associate. Shaan, who has hosted a number of talent-based actuality reveals earlier than and has mentored singers on a lot of them, is nervous about Mika’s swayamvar as a result of he’s conscious that it’s not only a present however a matter of two individuals’s lives. However with a eager curiosity in relationships and a behavior of giving unsolicited recommendation to his associates, Shaan claims he’s the fitting individual to tackle the accountability. Additionally learn: Shaan warns younger singers to not promote their soul to music firms: Don’t grow to be slave to the system
In a candid chat with Hindustan Instances, Shaan shares his understanding of relationships and in addition the mantra behind a profitable marriage. He vouches for Mika’s seriousness find a match on the present and in addition lists the recommendation he wish to share together with his ‘bhai’. Excerpts from the interview:
You might be turning host for a swayamwar this time.
I’ve executed dancing, internet hosting and different issues earlier than however that is very totally different from what I’ve executed. I’d have questioned why I’ve been chosen to host a swayamwar present however after I learnt about my brother Mika discovering a bride, I used to be like, ‘why I’d stay behind in serving to him’. I do know him higher than others, I’ve spent quite a lot of time with him, executed movies and actuality reveals with him. He hosted my final birthday celebration at his home.
He has a picture of the one sporting sun shades, chains and speaking in a heavy voice with an angle. However there are numerous issues that he has stored hidden behind his darkish shades. I do know these secrets and techniques. I’m additionally very all for human interactions, relationships. Mika will not be very expressive so I’ll assist the women attending to know his unseen facet. I even have little bit of an expertise which I can use in serving to him discover his life associate.
I’ve a eager curiosity in relationships and in addition give unsolicited recommendation to associates on any subject. I’ve saved many marriages, additionally do counselling. Let’s see if I can counsel individuals or I would be the one who would wish counselling. I’ll do with all my coronary heart as a result of this isn’t only a present but in addition about somebody’s life.
Wanting on the historical past of earlier swyamwars, do you assume Mika would be the first one to truly tie the knot and have a fortunately ever after on the present?
I’m not certain about how critical the sooner celebrities had been or had been they taking a look at it simply to achieve reputation. At this level in life, Mika doesn’t want one thing like this for reputation. Every time we meet, even throughout our final assembly, he expressed his want to quiet down. I do know he’s critical.
What recommendation would you give Mika to be able to assist him discover a bride?
Throughout college days, we used to fill in scrapbook about what woman we would like in life. We’d write, ‘she ought to have good sense of humour and so on’. I simply wish to advise him to be open. You get a optimistic vibration once you meet somebody, that chemistry, you can not clarify it in phrases. If he’s creating a reference to somebody, he ought to take note of that.
Once I met Radhika (Shaan’s spouse), I didn’t know we might have such a phenomenal married life collectively. One thing clicked between us. I favored her honesty, she is what she is. If she is upset, she shall be upset, one has to take care of it. I can solely say that one should not focus solely on ticking sure packing containers, and marry the one who ticks all packing containers.
Is there one thing you’ll advise Mika to not do to be able to discover a associate?
We have now had our fights at occasions. However he is aware of that I’ve nothing towards him and he too doesn’t have something towards me. We have now now grow to be such quick associates that I’ve even taken the accountability of his wedding ceremony. He’s bit impulsive and needs to be affected person, the woman also needs to have endurance with him. No two persons are alike on this world, so in order for you one thing, you’ll have to compromise. For those who get a number of issues and don’t get just a few, it must be okay. If you would like one thing so excellent, you have to a robotic.
How does your spouse react to your stardom and feminine fan following?
We waited for 4 years earlier than tying the knot. I by no means did something to make her really feel uncomfortable however her associates used to say, ‘these movie persons are very over-friendly, immediately they’re right here, tomorrow they’re there’. She comes from a joint household background. I used to be her first boyfriend and 6 years older to her, so that they didn’t assume that we might final. I additionally didn’t have such hopes as a result of we had been very totally different from one another. However by the tip of 4 years, every part was sorted.
The conditions we witnessed in these 4 years will come up again to again on the present. It’s all in regards to the wavelength. Lastly it won’t rely on who’s one of the best woman, it would all rely on who’s one of the best one for Mika. Even later, they might say that he’s not like the best way they thought he was, we’re prepared for all features. I simply wish to cushion the autumn. The woman also needs to not really feel harm.
I’m a bit nervous about how will I in a position to do it. My spouse will be a part of me on occasion to make sure that I’m going proper in addition to Mika.
What do you assume is the mantra for a profitable married life?
The one mantra is — it doesn’t matter what occurs, the considered dwelling with out one another shouldn’t hit your thoughts. There shouldn’t be an possibility like it’s higher to separate. The idea of giving area throughout this time is a really harmful idea. We don’t have such idea. We have now related aesthetics, tastes and vitality ranges. We cry on the identical subject and snigger on the identical subject. We all know we make an excellent couple. If you give a sure worth to your relationship, you already know it’s without end and you’ll robotically be in your limits.